California
What is a step-up plan for custody, and how does it work?
Quick answer
A step-up plan is a parenting schedule that starts with shorter or less frequent time with one parent and increases it in planned stages, for example from daytime visits to one overnight to alternate weekends. It is a way of writing a schedule, not a separate kind of order: the term is not used on the Judicial Council custody forms (FL-311, FL-311-INFO, FL-341 and its attachments) or the courts’ self-help custody and parenting plan pages, so each stage, its dates, and any conditions are whatever the parents agree to or the judge orders.
Researched by Dan Martin, Legal Researcher · Published by Onbello Legal · Last updated October 2026
What the law says
Family Code section 3040(e) allows “the court and the family the widest discretion to choose a parenting plan that is in the best interest of the child,” and section 3048(a)(3) requires every custody or visitation order to contain “A clear description of the custody and visitation rights of each party.”
The custody request form is built for dated stages. Item 4a of form FL-311 asks for in-person time with the instruction “Specify start and ending date and time.” Weekends and weekdays each run “starting (date),” and item 3b lets you attach a written schedule instead.
The courts’ self-help custody page describes supervised visits used for a similar purpose: “It is sometimes used when a child and a parent need time to become more familiar with each other, like if a parent has not seen their child in a long time and both need to slowly get to know each other again.” Section 3011(a)(3) lists “The nature and amount of contact with both parents” among the best-interest factors.
- Family Code section 3040 (leginfo.legislature.ca.gov)
- Family Code section 3048 (leginfo.legislature.ca.gov)
- Form FL-311, Child Custody and Visitation (Parenting Time) Application Attachment, Rev. January 1, 2026 (PDF)
- California Courts self-help: child custody and parenting time
- Family Code section 3011 (leginfo.legislature.ca.gov)
What to do next
Write each stage with a start date or a clear trigger, the days and times, and where exchanges happen. If a stage depends on a condition, such as finishing a class, the plan can say how completion is shown. If the schedule needs to change in a way no stage covers and you want the change to be a court order, that takes a written agreement filed with the court and signed by a judge, or a new Request for Order.
Last checked against the sources above on October 8, 2026.
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