New Jersey
How do I change a custody order in New Jersey?
Quick answer
The New Jersey Supreme Court has said a custody arrangement, whether agreed or imposed by the court, can be modified on a showing of changed circumstances, with custody then decided under the best interests standard of N.J.S.A. 9:2-4 (Bisbing v. Bisbing, 230 N.J. 309 (2017)). How you ask depends on whether your case is FD or FM.
Researched by Dan Martin, Legal Researcher · Published by Onbello Legal · Last updated October 2026
FD cases
File the Application/Cross Application to Modify a Court Order from kit CN 11487, attaching the order you want changed if you have it. The other party uses the same form to respond with a cross application. The Judiciary lists a $25 fee. In FD cases, applications replace motion practice (R. 5:4-4(a)).
FM cases
File a post-judgment motion using the Family Multi-Purpose Post Judgment Motion Packet (CN 10483), with a copy of the order you want changed (R. 5:5-4(a)(3)). Motions are served and filed at least 24 days before the return date, opposition and cross-motions at least 15 days before, and replies at least 8 days before, with 3 days added for mail (R. 5:5-4(c)). The Judiciary lists a $50 fee for FM motions.
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