Contempt and Enforcement in Illinois Family Court

How to enforce parenting time and support orders when the other parent will not comply

When the other parent ignores the order

An Illinois parenting or support order is a court order, not a suggestion. When the other parent withholds your parenting time or stops paying support, the court has tools to make them comply. The two main tools are an enforcement petition under the parenting time statute and a finding of contempt of court. They often travel together, but they are not the same thing, and choosing the right one matters.

This guide covers how Illinois enforces allocated parenting time under 750 ILCS 5/607.5, how to bring a petition for enforcement and an Order to Show Cause, the difference between indirect civil and criminal contempt, and what it takes to enforce a child support order.

This guide is for informational purposes only and is not legal advice. Every case is different. If you can afford an attorney, we encourage you to hire one.

Enforcing parenting time — the § 607.5 remedies

Section 607.5 of the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act, titled “Abuse of allocated parenting time,” requires the court to provide an expedited procedure for enforcing allocated parenting time. If the court finds that a parent has without good cause failed to comply with the parenting time terms, it may impose one or more of the following:

  • Imposition of additional terms and conditions on the order
  • A requirement that one or both parties attend a parental education program
  • A requirement that the parties participate in family or individual counseling
  • A requirement that the non-complying parent post a cash bond or other security to ensure future compliance
  • A requirement that makeup parenting time be provided for the aggrieved parent or child
  • A finding that the non-complying parent is in contempt of court
  • An appropriate civil fine per incident of denied parenting time
  • A requirement that the non-complying parent reimburse the other parent for reasonable expenses incurred because of the violation
  • Any other provision that may promote the child's best interests

Section 607.5 also provides that the court shall order the parent who failed to comply to pay the aggrieved parent's reasonable attorney's fees, court costs, and expenses, except for good cause shown. The same fee-shifting can run the other way: if the court finds the petition was not justified, it may order the petitioner to pay the respondent's fees and costs.

Document every denial

The court can only act on what you can prove. Keep a dated log of each denied or shortened visit, save the messages where the exchange was refused, and note any reason the other parent gave. A specific, dated record is far more persuasive than a general complaint that the other parent “keeps” withholding time.

The petition for enforcement and Order to Show Cause

Enforcement starts with a written petition filed in the same Illinois circuit that entered the order. To enforce parenting time under § 607.5, your petition generally must include:

  1. Your information and the order — your name and contact details (with protections available if there are domestic violence concerns) and the specific parenting plan or order terms you are enforcing.
  2. The specific violations — the dates and details of each instance the other parent failed to comply, not a vague summary.
  3. Your attempt to resolve it — a statement that you made a reasonable attempt to resolve the dispute before filing.

When you are asking the court to hold the other parent in contempt, the usual vehicle is a Petition for Rule to Show Cause. If the petition states enough facts, the judge enters a rule (an Order to Show Cause) directing the other parent to appear and explain why they should not be held in contempt. At the hearing, the burden then shifts to that parent to show their non-compliance was not willful or that they had a valid excuse. The Illinois courts and Illinois Legal Aid Online publish standardized forms, including an easy-form Petition for Rule to Show Cause, for child support, parenting plans, and other family law orders.

Indirect civil contempt versus criminal contempt

Contempt that happens outside the judge's presence — such as failing to pay support or withholding a child — is indirect contempt. It comes in two forms, and the difference controls what the court can do.

  • Indirect civil contempt — the goal is to coerce compliance, not to punish. Any sanction (including jail) must come with a purge condition — a clear act the contemnor can perform to end the sanction, such as paying a set amount or providing makeup parenting time. The phrase courts use is that the contemnor “carries the keys to the jail in their own pocket.” Because the purpose is compliance, the court must believe the person presently has the ability to comply.
  • Criminal contempt — the goal is to punish a completed, willful violation of the court's authority. There is no purge condition, the penalty is fixed, and the contemnor is entitled to greater procedural protections because of the punitive nature of the proceeding.

Purging the contempt ends it

Civil contempt is curable. If the other parent fixes the violation — pays the arrears, provides the makeup time — before the hearing, the court may find there is nothing left to coerce. That is the point of civil contempt: compliance, not retribution.

Enforcing a child support order

When the other parent stops paying court-ordered child support, Illinois gives you several enforcement options, including income withholding, interest on the arrears, and contempt. Many parents also use the Illinois Department of Healthcare and Family Services Division of Child Support Services, which can pursue administrative enforcement tools.

To hold a non-paying parent in contempt, it is not enough to show the payments were missed. The failure to pay must be willful — the court must find the parent had the ability to pay and chose not to. A parent who genuinely cannot pay despite good-faith effort, and who comes forward with that proof, generally should not be held in contempt. In practice, once non-payment is shown, the burden shifts to the paying parent to establish that the failure was not willful or that there was a valid excuse.

Ability to pay is the central fact

Contempt for unpaid support turns on whether the parent could have paid. Documentation of the other parent's income, employment, assets, and spending is often what wins or loses a support contempt motion. If you cannot pay your own support order, the answer is to ask the court to modify it — not to simply stop paying, which exposes you to contempt.

Do not use contempt for trivial disputes

Contempt is a serious remedy reserved for clear, willful violations of a specific order. Judges see a great deal of it, and they can tell the difference between a parent enforcing a real, repeated violation and a parent weaponizing the court over minor friction. A pickup that ran a few minutes late, a single rescheduling, or an ordinary disagreement about parenting decisions is usually not contempt, and bringing those complaints can damage your credibility for the times that count.

Remember the fee-shifting cuts both ways under § 607.5: if the court decides your petition was not justified, you can be ordered to pay the other parent's attorney's fees and costs. Before you file, make a genuine attempt to resolve the issue directly, keep that effort in writing, and reserve enforcement for violations that are specific, documented, and repeated.

Build the record before you file

The strongest enforcement and contempt petitions rest on dated, contemporaneous proof: the order itself, a log of each violation, messages showing the denial or non-payment, and your written attempt to resolve it first. Save these records as the problem unfolds — do not try to reconstruct them after you decide to file.

Common questions

What can I do if the other parent violates our Illinois order?

Under 750 ILCS 5/607.5 the court can order make up parenting time, counseling, fines, and attorney fees for abuse of parenting time. You can file a petition for enforcement or a petition for rule to show cause. Indirect civil contempt requires a purge condition the other parent can meet.

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